We all agree that a soulmate is someone who was MEANT for you and MEANT to be with you.
Soulmate for me is a bestfriend above all else, someone who motivates you, makes you laugh easily, someone who listen patienly to what I have to say, someone who I can say anything to, someone who let me be a "monster" but will forgive me quickly when I apologize. Essentially, someone who will stand by you. We think alike, share the same interests and has common value. She makes a dramatic impact in my life(and I don't even rely it sometimes). She makes me to be a better person. She connects with me in a way that I can't explain... you know, we know what each other are thinking by just looking and smiling at each other. She always seem to always finish my sentences.
She completes me in way that when we are both together we are so much stronger as whole than when we are alone. And when we are away from each other I feel like a part of me is missing. We are comfortable together in silence. She would gladly put me and my needs ahead of her own. She has a deep desire to provide me with all that I am missing from my life.
Does the long description above enough for you guys? There is one girl in my life that fit the above description. Is she my soulmate? Probably you would say yes. But let me point something to you.. I am not with her now. I have called one person a soulmate in my life and that is her. Yet, we're not together anymore. Whatever happened between us, she always hold a special place in my heart and I thank her. From the bottom of my soul, I thank her for the love she gave me and the friendship we had (have).
Let me ask you again. Is she my soulmate? Or do I need to define "soulmate" better?